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The day after celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary i looked at his phone history and i saw he was under porn sites and i even saw a link for a strip chat. This was 5 hours after we CELEBRATED our anniversary and i was hurt but then i was like its his birthday maybe somebody sent him porn for his bday but deeper dive into i found out he was going to a site name listcrawler and and some other questionable sites which i figured more porn. He likes porn ok why hide it but deeper i looked listcrawler was an escort site to meet up with prostitutes' and have sex. He played it off as it was porn but if anyone who knows me i looked deeper. I found questionable emails from other females from another sex site or dating site from 2013 and one from may 17 2018 but there was right after the motorcycle accident . but then i found find out he was texting girls when i was sleeping rather they where from list crawler or other sites but he was texting them almost daily when i was sleeping or at work. ( Do you know he use to come wake me up and ask if i was getting up cuz he said he misses me but thats was because he was texting them and he didnt want to get caught or it was part of his sick game. Don't believe I didn't think so either. he would constantly threaten to make me a widow and bring out the gun but in 2024 it happen a lot more. The closer i got to his sick perverted secret the meaner he got. I blamed him to being to friendly to someone's wife on Facebook and i was uncomfortable with it and he got meaner so it set me in high alert which was why I originally checked his history cuz i felt something was of. We fought he brought out the gun and threaten to make me a widow. This has been a common occurrence it got so bad it 2024 my eldest talked about he will have to have to quite college and get a full time job to help provide for the household if his dad commits suicide because of what was happening in the house. but i was thinking this is just a phase it pass its cuz we been fighting alot but i felt something wasnt right. i figured hey we love each other so much we just fight with the same passion. Early hours of Oct 23rd steve went to the garage i rch history we fought and he went to the garage as you see in video Oct 23rd but things felt off and i knew something was going on i finally start to look at the sites he was visiting and come to find out it was escorts sites and someother questionalbe3 sites and we fought it got so bad really bad he pulled a gun out and put it to his temple 5 times that night and he threaten if i called the police everyone in the house will be going to federal prison because of the marijuana tents downstairs. He punched holes in the wall. There was a lot of agruueing. He had the gun out as imitimadtion he put it to his head threating to kill himself. I was on the couch covering my eyes in fear every time he bought out the gun because i knew anything can happen and no one was safe. My fear was he would kill himself right in front of me as punishment. I remember David begging his father to stop and told him that he loves him and dont kill himself. do you think that made him stop it continued and the knife came out and threagtening to kill himself. We made it upstairs the gun is now out of site somewhere and he said watch what i can do with the extension cord and reclincer again i will not give him my attention. He ended up trapping me in bathroom and we were arguing he was refusing to let me out. He then put the shower head around his neck to choke himself and then continued to pull plastic bags over his face. Sounds crazy but it was happening and then he punched several holes in the bathroom and he kicked the bottom of the bathtub so the piece is shattered. Finally we i got out of the bathroom. I remember telling him to get out of the house or let me scan his phone. We argued more and hands when flying at each other my phone caught him in the head we yelled and argued. He first didnt start staying in the garage till but i caught him emotionally cheating on me and he was ended up staying basically the whole month at. He stayed in the garage i didnt stop him from coming in. I did tell him to get out he was on the couch cause he was taunting me the night before that i can scan his phone if i want which he was lying. He was stealing my personal items such as deodorant, make up bag, straightener, remote control , and my good luck gri gri bag, my vape cartridge's, the chrome book, family iPad, his old iPhone 8 in the beginning he stole my phone i was able to get those things back because i needed to work but the other items i was pissed he keeps stealing my stuff for no reason so yes ripped the convertible top to get in before you say i went psycho the top was dry rotted away but i don't i want my stuff back that is in my car as well. got everything back and more took his wallet gun and the money he got from working on our anniversary for my sister that he held over my head. I went down stairs gave Michael the gun that he was using to terrorize fear into us. He was in the house and i told him i took everthing back and more from the convertible and he went back outside. alot of fighting but then i lost it and i told michael can you get him to leave. I need him to leave as i was loosing my fricken mind from what has been going down since Oct 22 at 11. I had his phone line susupended when i found out he was texting females behind my back. He demanded items that i took and he leave i gave everything that was his back so he leave but i couldnt find his wallet i was questionaing mysleft where did i put it along with the bag of vapes. Those boys had to remove the father but they did it an a protective loving way it breaks my heart but you can see him lying on the video already now i know the signs. Later on that night i saw a purchasae i saw he tried to make a purchas3e with my old walmart card and he made purchase at walgrenns so he has his wallet more lies. He claimed he stayed at a truck stop but he wasnt away fromthis hourse that long he would end up back in gthre drive way and just sit there you would see his phone go off and he leave very suspisoius behavior but i was like he trying to get me upset or he is up to something. Look at the walgreeens recepit he buys a box of condoms now please tell me what married man buys a box of condoms cuz he is fighting with his faminly and says he staying at a hotel. ( No evidence of hotel stay no recpeits no email but he claims he stayed at a hotel but he did buy a box of condoms from hammond walgreens at 2 am. That should say everthing. First let me tell im not stupid i need to make sure before i throw away marriage i kept digging i can see his search histroy so i know he was under list crawler and i saw he had a code activate for a new phone. Holy fuck he just bought anouther phone i remained calm the best i could. well he ended up coming back in the drive text and drive away but my sisters interfered and ended up staying out there while i could clear my head and heal my mental health. I wouldnt answer any of his calls or texts i really needed my mental health to heal cuz what was going on wasnt right. He stayed there for almost 2 weeks. We had thanksgiving without him i made a meal for the kids and mike had to go to bed by 5pm. but i still wasnt ready to talk to him i was so hurt and betrayed i just didnt know what to do so I made some moves i got rid of the the tents before he got home so i can call the poilice if the gun is brought out. I changed the ring password because he messed with the cameras before he left and i turned in all our cable boxes to save money on the bill. ( Which he didnt like i guess) I put up the light dec 1 on the ramp all by myself. His check hit the bank and he took all his money out sayibng why should his money be in the bank when he is not living here. Ok i get that part but you had destroyed me and all i need to do is pay our bills and keep moving forward but

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